IsRedFlag 
YOUR STORY. OUR READ.
Is it a
red flag?
That story you keep replaying? Drop it here. Get a second opinion.
ABOUT ISREDFLAG
A second opinion for that story.
A red flag in dating or a relationship is a warning sign worth paying attention to. Maybe a boundary keeps getting pushed. Maybe someone's words and actions do not line up. Context matters: one awkward date and a repeated pattern are different stories.
Use this free red flag checker for a date, a relationship, or a situationship. You'll get a quick green, yellow, or red flag read, plus a breakdown of the signals in your story. It's an interpretation of your account, not evidence about someone else.
THE THREE FLAGS
What does each flag mean?
Green flag
The story points to respect, clear communication, and room for both people to set boundaries. It does not mean everything about the relationship is perfect.
Yellow flag
Something feels off, but the missing context matters. It may be worth asking a direct question, watching for a pattern, or explaining what you need.
Red flag
The account describes more serious warning signs, such as pressure, disregard for boundaries, or controlling behavior. Take the concern seriously and use your own judgment.
LOOK FOR THE PATTERN
The detail changes the read.
Still talking to an ex? That alone does not settle anything. Being open about it, hiding it, or ignoring an agreed boundary can point in very different directions. The same goes for slow replies, jealousy, mixed signals, or a sudden change in plans.
When you describe your situation, include what happened, whether it has happened before, what each person said, and how they responded when you raised it. A specific example gives the checker more to work with than “they're acting weird.” Leave out names and identifying details.
The percentages summarize signals in the text you submitted. They are not the chance that someone is lying or manipulating you. Your result is a prompt to think, talk, and decide what feels right for you.
HOW IT WORKS
Write it. Read it. You decide.
- 01Describe one specific situation. Leave out names and personal details.
- 02Our AI reads the signals in your text and gives you a tentative verdict.
- 03Keep what helps, consider the real context, and share the verdict if you want.
FAQ
Before you call it.
Can this tell if someone is lying?
No. It only reads signals in your version of events. A high score does not prove a lie or replace a real conversation.
Yellow flag or red flag: what's the difference?
A yellow flag points to something ambiguous that may need more context. A red flag means the signs you described seem more serious. Neither label defines an entire relationship.
Can I write my story in Spanish?
Yes. You can write in Spanish or English. The verdict and labels appear in English.
Will my story be posted anywhere?
No. We send it to an AI provider to generate your result. If you rate the verdict, we save only your vote and the scores, never the story text. Read our privacy policy.